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Paul engaged in Home makeover
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We have been gradually transitioning into the role MCC Representatives
for Tanzania since we signed the offer
last October. But on Friday, we officially moved from the back seat to the
driver’s seat. Today, we felt the full force of Rep email descending on us. We
are grateful that we are near the end of emergency online education because we
will need to be giving a lot more time to our roles as Directors of MCC’s
programming in Tanzania.
Meanwhile, there are other side jobs to tend to as well.
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Haircuts in the garage
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Like most people in lockdown, our hair has been getting a
little unkempt. Last weekend, our set of hair clippers finally arrived, and I
found myself trimming my mom’s hair, and then David’s. I need to figure out who
I am brave enough to ask to trim my hair…
We have had a larger side task to tend to after work and on
the weekends in the past month. We found an arrangement to stay rent-free in a
lovely, vacant vacation home on the Bay, in exchange for painting. It has
turned out to be an interesting and substantial job. Fortunately, we have a
coach / site manager with all the equipment we need. Last weekend, Don dropped
off a power washer, which enabled Paul to blast the old paint and stain off of
the lower sides of the house, as well as the moss and weeds off of the patio
and the concrete walkway down to the beach.
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Powerwashing
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On Wednesday, he brought a truck
with a lift. By Thursday night, Paul had blasted clean the high front wall of
the house. By Friday night he’d stained
the entire high section, and on Saturday, he and I worked as a team to stain
the rest of the place. David even pitched in to paint a low section of boards
where the stain just dripped into the bushes and didn’t do any harm. We made it
festive by blasting the upbeat tunes from “The Greatest Showman,” a current
favorite with our boys. It was great to finish this part of the home
improvement contract before our Rep role really got going. Now we just have a
couple of doors to paint, and some mulching to do.
In the midst of these various kinds of labors, our nation is
facing yet another crisis. Is this a moment of
opportunity? On May 31, when we last wrote, we could hardly imagine that any
other crisis could surpass the COVID-19 pandemic and the accompanying economic
disaster in our country. But then the system of racial injustice in America
killed George Floyd. People have had enough. And now we are in the midst of
urgent labor, as a nation, some of us trying to deliver justice. Or will it be
a miscarriage, once again? It truly feels different this time, and if there is
anything we can do to push our country towards change, we need to do it. The
trouble is, we are staying out in the boonies, and we also are wary of being
exposed to the virus in crowds, since we are essentially “quaranteaming” with
our older parents.
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Demonstrating on Rt 40, Cecil County
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We decided to join with a movement for systemic change, the
Poor People’s Campaign, to remembering Floyd’s killing. We stood on the
sidewalk near our local Food Lion grocery store and demonstrated for a couple
of hours, and then knelt to observe 8 minutes and 46 seconds of silence. This
county is very Republican. Mostly pickup trucks drove past, and so we only got
a handful of supportive honks every few minutes. But that’s OK – it’s important
that we all realize racial justice is a moral issue, and people in every corner
of the country are calling for it. About 20% of the drivers we saw were African-American, and we hope they know we saw them. David came with us for that first
round. Oren was very apprehensive about the potential for some kind of violent
confrontation with a right-wing person who might be offended by our expression
of our constitutional rights. But we had no conversations or confrontations. We
just smiled and waved and were present in the community.
I was also struck by how easy it was for us to put our signs
into our car and return to anonymity once more. In our church service the day
before, one young man of color reminded us, with deep emotion, that racial
injustice for him is not an issue, it is his reality. What will it take for all
of us, especially Christians of European background, to make this struggle for
justice our daily reality, not just a cause or an issue to take up when we have
the luxury of a little spare time?
We continue to enjoy visits with each set of grandparents
every few days. Paul's parents really are grateful to leave their closed retirement community to go for a drive into the country. We are able to sit in the yard, in the fresh air and share lots of stories, as well as debate what on earth needs to happen to fix our country.
In the beginning of June, David and I went to enjoy a special
overnight with my parents. We picked up fresh strawberries along the way and I
felt inspired to bake a fresh strawberry pie.
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Family strawberry picking
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In the morning, my mom took David
and me for a visit to Ladew Topiary Gardens, right there in their neighborhood in Harford County. It was the very first day they
welcomed members by reservation, and we were so glad to revisit those gorgeous
flower gardens while the peonies and iris were still blooming.
David especially
enjoyed finding all stages of tadpoles in the little ponds and fountains,
giving us older people the chance to sniff the roses.
Both David and Oren have had special overnights with my
parents, which always involve productive yard work (and pay!). Oren has mowed
their grass at least 6 times by now. David accomplishes all kinds of odd jobs,
including leaf blowing, seed planting and cutting the suckers off of the
bottoms of their fruit trees.
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David wielding the leaf blower
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My parents have been stuck at home for the entire lockdown,
so we invited them to come out to stay one night with us on the Bay. We forbade
any computer work! My Dad started reading a memoir about the Bay, and my mom
and I took a canoe trip with David up the Principio river. The river is always
lovely and refreshing. But overall, the trip was a little longer and harder
than we planned. David needed to take a turn at paddling – steering the canoe.
And as we returned, in higher wind and waves, he got very tired, but somehow I
was able to urge him to keep going, since we really did not have a choice about
switching positions to relieve him of his duties. It was a good lesson in
endurance for him.
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David with bags #13 and #14 |
David has also been going through a great unit in environmental education in science class. This has coincided with a sudden interest in picking up trash off of the shore around where we are staying. This particular shore had gotten very junky after the two big storms in April, which washed every possible kind of trash up from the south and deposited it directly into the marsh next door. We are able to gather and separate what we find (shoes, styrofoam, and endless plastic bottles) into trash and recycling.
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Gramma Jean and Oren
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Oren has also enjoyed more personal time with his grandparents and is finally at the stage where adult conversation can be actually engaging for him. He has had several sleepovers and has watched the entire Lord of the Rings trilogy with my parents. We are glad for the ways that he is able to appreciate this time to be with them.
We have another two weeks of school to get through, and we will need to focus well on getting our real new job off to a good start. And who knows what else might happen. This is a time which will call for a lot of endurance. But we are also surrounded by many small wonders, and many good fruits of our little labors.
Bonus Photos:
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David and Koi at Ladew Gardens
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Tiny turtle we found in a swimming pool |
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Enjoying my dad's hot tub
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David catching a catfish
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Staining the house
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Horse country in Harford County |
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